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The fear is real
My whole life I've been dealing with fear. When I got into yoga and especially Ayurveda I found out that fear is a constitutional characteristic of vata dosha, the combination of the air and space elements. Having vata in my constitution has inspired my creative pursuits and enabled me to be adaptable and free spirited. It's also been one of my biggest challenges. With the tendency to get carried away with thoughts and anxieties I've found it hard to land and ground. Little things can trigger the deep seated traumas.
Like anyone caught in a shocking situation, one does the best to cope. My coping mechanism for past traumas was to numb out, quash the grief and keep going. Keeping on keeping on has served me well for the most part. It has driven me to teach, share and now write. But just because I look like I'm happy and settled doesn't mean I have been able to go beyond my fear. Like I said, when I least expect it it creeps up on me.
Last night and most nights when the lights go out and I'm nearly asleep I have this terrifying moment. I think I've forgotten my evening shot. Before I can catch myself and calmly go through my evening routine, my heart is leaping out of my chest. In that moment the fear is real. A few moments later I realise I'm being irrational and I start to relax. This kind of automatic response bugs me. I should have it all together.
But that's crazy. They say that someone living with diabetes makes about 182 decisions per day. What to eat, how much to eat, how much insulin to take, how much insulin to correct, how many carbs to treat when low, how much and how long to exercise. What to carry just in case. OMG and that's just a small glimpse. I think fear is natural amidst a pile of unpredictable factors. Besides my diabetes decisions, I have to keep my life going like everyone else. Bills to pay, work to do. You get the gist.
What I have learnt about fear is that it's one of the supportive mechanisms of the nervous system. Fear gives us the capacity to move away from danger. It's protective. I know a lot of people have used this anachronism of F.E.A.R, false-evidence- appearing- real.
Can we stop right there. Yes we can overreact to our thoughts and yes we can project onto a situation, and yes it's good to overcome our fears.
As someone living with diabetes my fears are not a false projection. My life is in danger if I don't get my medication dosage right. I can suffer from a host of complications, without the appropriate technology to measure my levels I could go into a coma and if I don't have access to medication, I die. These are real and tangible things that would make anyone afraid. Terrified actually.
So whats the solution? Quash the fear? Push onward and upward?
The simple answer is acknowledgement. When I acknowledge the reality that diabetes sucks and its not easy to manage. I feel more capable. When that bolt hits me at bedtime and I'm in its grip I remind myself, I am here and alive.
"Sometimes the best coaching advice you can get is simple acknowledgement that there's nothing else you could have done." Hannah Kearney- American Athlete See you tomorrow #NDAM #DiabetesAwarenessMonth
with great respect....